Insights, intimate thoughts & innovative ideas to help you bring more joy into your life!

I do not have to struggle for success in area of my life.

Struggle is a choice (conscious or unconscious but still a choice) struggle & self care/self awareness/self love can not co exist. So when you are actively attracting easy moments into your life you are saying yes to Self & hell no to struggle.

This is a great though to bring to your relationships too. After I take care of me (thoroughly) I then ask “How can I make today a bit more easier for my partner? My momma?My wolves? ” & then I do what I can to add more ease into their lives.

From sending scholarship links, therapist referrals, making tea, cleaning up, helping with their businesses to praying over their success & health daily. It really allows me to show them how much they mean to me while also making life easier for us both.

If I’m good, your good & if your good I’m good. That’s the energy easeful living brings. Definitely get into it wolves. 🐺💚

I’ve been able to slow down & still maintain productivity. I truly feel aligned in the moonlight.

I normally operate on hunches, actions given to me right before I wake up. This full moon I was guided to reflect on the friendships I’ve had to end & how they were still weighing on my spirit.

I used the ritual below to lovingly neutralize & release these relationships so I can soar higher.

ritual for Pisces Full Moon: REVEAL RELEASE REPLACE

✨REVEAL: sit in a quiet space & think about the relationships that had to end within your life. See why the ending was necessary & see why you held on for so long. Write out the names on a piece of paper 📝

✨RELEASE: take that piece of paper say “I lovingly release you from my energy, mind & life. May you go in peace” and burn it (safely) in a bowl. Be sure the entire paper turns to ash.

Place a few drops Florida water & crystal infused water in the bowl to dissolve the ashes into liquid, pour it out in the toilet or outside of your home.

Then go take a shower/bath (I used LobaLand Self Love sacred scrub to remove any lingering energy) watch all the low vibes flow into the drain

✨REPLACE: burn sage to cleanse all energy & then Palo Santo for good vibes (you can always use LobaLand FLOW mist to cleanse & charge too!) throughout your home & around your body & chakras.

Take out your moon journal and write out the positive things you’ve gotten from that relationship. Intentionally replace the thought of the relationship with that positive aspect.

Ex: the friend I released was really great at practicing & studying her craft. So I removed her from my life and replace her high vibration of practice & study in the space she once held.

When your done place your hand over your heart, take 3 deep breathes & affirm: I am now free, at peace & prosperous. This closes your ritual. 🌕🌕🌕

That’s it! Afterwards play some tunes & enjoy the lighter energy wolf! Yes you can still get intro the full moon vibes the day before & after a full moon!

A MOMENT OF REALNESS 〰️

Yesterday I was talking with my good sis Sky Britnei of De La JIPI Apothecary, and we were saying how being a practitioner/biz owner is not just what you see on our intentionally cute curated feeds. 🙅🏾‍♀️

Most times (unless I’m working on something specific to beauty) I look like this. Wild AF. Usually bumping trap music, glasses & kimonos hunny. It’s when I feel most like me that I’m able to channel & create.

I say all that to say remember that your favorite practitioner/ biz owner is a whole breathing - emotional - probably not with the shits - HUMAN. That means:

✨ Talk to me nice: say “Hi, how are you?” Before asking your question & don’t try to bully either, most of us are professional but to a point. (aka being human)

✨ READ POLICY PAGES, FAQs, BLOGs & EMAILS: most likely your answer is there in full detail w/ clickable resources. Get into it.

✨ Have patience: no lie this is a lot to do by oneself, even w/ a small team. Not to mention a small biz resources are NOT the same as your fav big retailers. Stop comparing us.

✨ Give Grace: allow us some wiggle room to get it right, don’t dismiss us the 1st time we mess up (damn) especially w/ black biz.

✨ Show Love: if you love our content, products or overall vibe SHARE US! Help widen our reach & share the experience you had w/ us.

I love creating content & products for you. I love connecting with you digitally & in real life. Building this brand/company is a true dream. Just remember I am human & that we are growing together. 🐺💚

WolfMuva

MAKE LIFE EASIER ✨

If there’s one thing practicing self care has taught me is that my life can be easy & meaningful.

FULL MOON RITUAL 🌕

I’ve been living by the moon for years now, cherishing every phase & the guidance it brings me.